Bargaining power
The ability to claim a larger share of a surplus, which comes from having a better fallback, more patience or a more credible refusal rather than from need.
Often misread asTreating the side that cares more about the deal as the stronger one, so urgency and enthusiasm get read as strength.
How to see it
Power is your fallback, not your appetite
Strength in a negotiation comes from what happens if there is no deal, not from how much you want one. The side that suffers least from walking away, or can wait longest, or whose refusal is believed, takes the larger share. Need is not leverage; it is the opposite.
The checkCaring more weakens you, because that is what the other side is pricing. Strength is a good fallback, genuine patience, or a refusal the other side believes.
Try itWrite down what each side gets if talks collapse. Predict the split from those two numbers alone, ignoring how badly either side says it wants agreement. Where that prediction differs from your instinct, trust the fallback numbers.
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Sources
- Rubinstein, A. (1982). Econometrica 50(1), 97-109.
- Osborne, M. & Rubinstein, A. (1994). MIT Press.
- Schelling, T. (1960). Harvard University Press.